This guy...What would you do in this situation/?
This guy l told l liked immediately jumped into calling me and texting me
everyday! Ever sense l told him l liked him...the first time l hung out
with him he wanted to take me to his house...ONLY. The second time l hung
out with him was tonight and he gave me a drill down of everything about
him: family, car, , ambitions, habits....EVERYTHING. he asked me to give
him a drill down nad mine was completely lame LOL. l like him a lot
because he is such a well rounded person...AN AMAZING person. l am scared that he will not like me the way l like him so l shy away and sometimes say the wrong things. l do not know how to be around him. It is hard for me to relax. l had to go home tonight because we were in his car and if l looked him in the eye l would want him really bad! l told him tonight l did not know if l was where l wanted to be in life for a relationship and he said he would back off. l do not necessarily want him to back off l just want him to not pressure me and put me on the spot, because l get nervous. The crazy thing is...is that he is my supervisor which puts an even more interesting twist to the story.
Just tell him what you just told us. Tell him how you feel
around him. Usually talking makes things feel more comfortable.
yIKes it does get complicated towards the end of ur
situation..well i personally think its always good to just be yourself.and
if he dosen't like what he sees then he cld just back off..bt to wat u say
it seems like he is koo and understanding.its always nice to just sit down
and have a mature conv. let him know how u feel.because if u don't things
will get complicated in the future.Im sure he will understand
k . GOOd LuCK.
Umm kind of like talk to him what you guys are both interested
in
talk about your work later on you will be more relax
Simple! He likes you, adores you, wants you!
If he jumps into the relationship gear like that he is probably just
inexperienced with such things.
You might wanna tell him to slow down, be cool. If you like each other
that much, you might as well have a go at the couple stage. Just be warned
that if he starts being too cute and whatnot you should start getting bored
with him within weeks.
I know your feeling, he just has a wonderful frequency and
operates on a higher level whenever he is around you, so you get the
jitters which explains you saying the wrong things. I think you did the
right thing lettting him know, and I can see he is understandable. Just uh
hang out some more with him and see how it will look now that you have
explained yourself
Beware he sounds clingy
oh and the work thing changes everything
He sounds a lot like this guy I liked over the summer, except
he didn't like me that way & he had a girlfriend & when I wouldn't hang
out w/ him alone in his car, he stopped talking to me altogether. I know
what it is like to not want to be pressured into anything & I think you
should take the advice an old friend of mine gave me..if he stops trying
to be your boyfriend after 2 weeks, he just wants sex (or sexual things),
but if he keeps trying after 2 weeks, give him a chance. :-)
I know for younger people it is difficult to communicate, but
honestly being candid to a guy can be a turn on & refreshing for them
because you're not being fake. Tell him how you think about him as far as
what an amazing person he is & what a great role model he can be. Tell him
about some of ur interests even though you may not be involved in those
things right now. You must have interests yourself, be it movies, music,
dance, sports, etc. There has to be something & see if he has any interest in sharing those with you. Internet Phones VOIP Adapters
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